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Many couples face this crisis during their marriage: for some reason, the husband loses his sex drive. For the wife this is excruciating: not only is she deprived of the
pleasure of lovemaking, but she also feels rejected, ugly, and fears for the fate of her marriage. Her fear is well founded, for if this situation is allowed to continue, it may very well deteriorate to divorce. We all know how much sex is important to the overall wellbeing of a relationship. It is often the strain of a sexual crisis which drives couples apart.

Why does this happen?
If your husband has alow libido, know that you're not alone. This is something which happens to many couples all around the world. In fact, it may even be happening at your next door neighbours' without you even knowing it. Some couples hide this condition for years and everyone around them think they're perfectly happy.

The reason that your husband has a low libido likely has little to do with you. He doesn't find you ugly and it doesn't mean that he doesn't love you anymore. What is wrong is something different all together and it has to do with your relationship and intimacy.

Men are very much like children in the sense that they get excited by new things but their interest in them gradually wanes until they are not very interested anymore. It's like when a child gets a new toy, he or she doesn't let it out of their sight for the first few days, but gradually the toy gets less and less of the child's attention, until he or she hardly plays with it anymore.

The same thing can happen with sex. At first, your husband couldn't get enough of you. That's because everything was new to him. The reason why his sex drive is low is that he doesn't find sex to be exciting anymore because you've already done it so many times that he got used to the routine.

If you add some spice into your lovemaking, the passion will return as well. The key word here is variety. You need to make your lovemaking as new and exciting as when you first started sleeping with each other. You don't have to do anything degrading, but a little variety can do wonders. Do that, and you may find that your husband has energy levels you thought he lost years ago.


Author : Lucy Doyle Go to Free Ayurveda Consultations